Friday, December 14, 2012
Now that I have introduced a brief summary of my truth it's time to get to the "business" as one might say. This week I would like to discuss woman who tend to lower their standards to accommodate a man. We as women need to get it together, if not for ourselves but for the sake of these future lawyers, doctors, and politicians we are raising. Some may disagree with what I am about to say, but this is my area where I am free to speak and express how I feel. It is extremely difficult for me to grasp why some ladies, and I am good friends with some, allow themselves to be involved with an individual who, in lack of better words, does not have that privilege or has not worked for that privilege to be blessed with some of the things we bless that person with. Time is something that is extremely sacred and special that not every individual, man, or human being need it wasted on them, tough but true. I have met woman whom are very quite successful in their lives, but the bs to the side and crunched down and have accomplished so much but then will turn around and allow someone, a man, to walk in and they loose complete control and allow them to tear it all down in half the time it took them to put it up. I have to be honest I too am guilty of this completely. You also have the females that are guilty of accepting whatever bs a man dishes out just for the pleasure of wanting to be in whatever relationship they might have going on. My message to my ladies is don't allow yourself to be weak minded for a man, or whomever, have control of your life, decisions, and destiny. When looking to put your heart, faith, and trust in someone let it be a partnership. A partnership meaning a two way street, give as much that is given, a 50/50 commitment in every single aspect. Do not lower who you are as a person/individual for anyone, or being rather find someone that is at the same level as yourself, rather it be you work together to bring each other up, but it should never be one lowering for another because that will never work, trust me I know. We all want love or to be in love and that is something that is meant to happen for everyone, it will feel so much real and better when it is done wholly and real.